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1/23/2009

回家过年

好久没有登msn上的space了。
明天就回家去了,一会下班闪人,也没时间写年度总结了。
向关心我的朋友们交代几句:挺充实,挺好的。
 
最近看的一篇短文,窃以为很好,抄下来准备带走火车上背去了,放在本文最后了:)
大体就是说“祸兮福之所倚,福兮祸之所伏”,上帝关心的不是我们做什么,而是我们是什么。
 
呵呵,还是坚持认为人生是旅行,动人的还是路边的风景。
 
顺道推一个松鼠会(songshuhui.net),一个不受功利驱动的玩科学、推科普的小圈子。
 
希望09年能把更多的时间放到自己感兴趣的事情上。
 
 

An interview with Rick Warren(Author of The Purpose Driven Life)

          
In an interview by Paul Bradshaw with Rick Warren, author of The Purpose Driven Life, Rick Warren said: People ask me, "What is the purpose of life?" And I respond as follows -in a nutshell, "Life is preparation for eternity". We were not made to last on earth forever, because eventually, God wants us to be with Him in Heaven. One day my heart is going to stop, and that will be the end of my body - but not the end of me. I may live 60 to 100 years on earth, but I am going to spend "forever" in eternity. This is the warm-up act, the dress rehearsal. God wants us to practice on earth what we will do forever in eternity. We were made by God and for God, and until you figure that out, life isn't going to make sense. Life is a series of problems. Either you are in one now, you have just come out of one or you're getting ready to go into another one. The reason for this is that God is more interested in your character than your comfort. God is more interested in making your life holy than He is in making your life happy. We can be reasonably happy here on earth, but that's not the goal of life. The goal is to grow in character, in Christ-likeness.

           

This past year has been the greatest year of my life but also the toughest, with my wife, Kay, getting cancer. I used to think that life was hills and valleys - you go through a dark time, then you go to the mountain top, back and forth. I don't believe that anymore. Rather than life being hills and valleys, I believe that it's kind of like two rails on a railroad track, and at all times you have something good and something bad in your life. No matter how good things are in your life, there is always something bad that needs to be worked on. And no matter how bad things are in your life, there is always something good you can thank God for.

          
You can focus on your purposes, or you can focus on your problems. If you focus on your problems, you're going into self-centeredness, which is "my problem, my issues, my pain." But one of the easiest ways to get rid of pain is to get your focus off yourself and onto God and others. We discovered quickly that in spite of the prayers of hundreds of thousands of people, God was not going to heal Kay or make it easy for her. It has been very difficult for her, and yet God has strengthened her character, given her a ministry to helping other people, given her a testimony, drawn her closer to Him and to people...You have to learn to deal with both the good and the bad in life.

           

Actually, sometimes learning to deal with the good is harder. For instance, this past year, all of a sudden, when the book sold 15 million copies, it made me instantly very wealthy. It also brought a lot of fame that I had never had to deal with before. I don't think God gives you money or fame for you to own an ego or for you to live a life of ease. So I began to ask God what He wanted me to do with this money, fame and influence. He gave me two different passages that helped me - Corinthians 9 and Psalm 72. Firstly, in spite of all the money coming in, we would not change our lifestyle one bit. We made no major purchases. Secondly, about midway through last year, I stopped taking a salary from the church. Thirdly, we set up foundations to fund an initiative we call The Peace Plan - to plant churches, equip leaders, assist the poor, care for the sick, and educate the next generation. Fourthly, I added up all that the church had paid me in the 24 years since I started the church, and I gave it all back. It was liberating to be able to serve God for free.

     

We need to ask ourselves: Am I going to live for possessions? Popularity? Am I going to be driven by pressures? Guilt? Bitterness? Materialism? Or am I going to be driven by God's purposes (for my life)? When I get up in the morning, I sit on the side of my bed and say, 'God, if I don't get anything else done today, I want to know You more and love You better' ... God didn't put me on earth just to fulfill a "to-do" list He's more interested in what I am than what I do. That's why we're called human beings, not human doings.

 

6/17/2008

冲动阿冲动,迷糊阿迷糊~~~

最近大家都很冲动,六月是个生日+毕业的月份
男生喝得都很不错,造成的局面就是清醒的人围着醉鬼们转,晓阳生日、大港生日以后,WD很冲动地说要请客,而且冲动地说是跟LB合请,这些冲动又发生在N瓶酒以后,于是LB也很无辜地默认了...细节不清楚;昨天醉醉的阿光跟我说,明天他们请吃饭你去哈;我:?不是说农历五月十八,“我要发”才请客么??迷惑着等待...早上,阿光回家了,我让LB把阿光电脑搬给我,他:阿光呢?晕死... 之后,国会在MSN上说LB昨晚11点给她电话,请她吃饭,可是当时她也迷糊,早晨起来以为做梦(感谢手机的来电记录功能,让我们认识了真相),话说昨晚11点,正是WD跟老师喝完,回去跟LB接着喝的时候,所以我对那通电话佩服得五体投地。
 
 
6/9/2008

很多事情都可以解决了

if 过两天回家
then 书籍没有整理,版衫让人代领,房子回来再找,图书馆手续找人代办,尚霞及其小胖妞回来再看,信用卡、手机卡、游泳卡blablabla都得回头再说了
but 今天开会又领取到任务若干
then 很多事情都可以解决了,成本就是让爹妈再多等等,话说俺爹说:“你要回不来,我跟小胖(俺妈)就过去”的时候,我还觉得老爹多虑了,现在发现他老人家还真是先知阿~~~~~崇拜一下
 
话说真是越忙越窘迫越出效果啊,这么忙这么忙,还是看了一些奇奇怪怪的小说,计算好毕业时的经济周转问题、办了点信用卡,新的身份证也拿到了,电脑里的东西整理得七七八八,宿舍的日用品几乎弹尽粮绝,衣柜已然空出1/2了。继续加油吧!tang胖子~
6/5/2008

静坐....

恩,一大坨人周六就去承德happy去了,我不能去了,哎,其实就算没有答辩,也不太想去了,事情非常多,时而我狂躁,时而光光狂躁。
跟他说:这就是近些年最好的时光拉,要:)不要:(,其实这话也应该对自己说。
好久没有闭关静想的时候了,暑假回家估计也是忙(不常回家的人就是容易被当成珍稀动物,一刻不停地遛)
非常想回到我的阳台,徬晚看看蝙蝠,深夜听听树叶响,仅此而已。
6/3/2008

662

662为什么那么挤呢?
662是一个很苗条的新公共汽车,不是高峰时间都很挤,我周六发现的,原因:
1.左右两边的座位之间只有仅容一人站立的地方
2.抓杠上没有吊环,很高
于是导致以下问题:
乘客都不会往后走,比如说如果ABC三个人从前向后紧挨这站立,一般情况下:C下车了,即时B偷懒没有往后走,A看见越过B就可以去更空旷的地儿,那A就会过去的,大家都这样,那么前面的空隙就留出来了。但662上:A越过B,很挤很挤,并且每处搭手,那么A就不去了。最后—〉662真的好挤哦,而且这种挤不同于650,其实是可以避免的。
 
 
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